Study Guide: What is Your Jordan? – Loud Cry International

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What is Your Jordan? – Loud Cry International

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Title: Parental Derangement Syndrome: The Heart of a Father Texts: Exodus 2, Numbers 20, Deuteronomy 3 & 34, Matthew 9:13, Matthew 7:11 Core Concept: God’s character is defined by persistent love and compassion (Mercy) more than rigid performance (Sacrifice), yet He disciplines those He loves for a greater purpose.

Part 1: The Paradigm Shift (Opening Reflection)

Sermon Summary: The preacher opens by stating that the two biggest shifts in his life were discovering Jesus’ personal love and becoming a parent. He argues that political partisanship has distorted our view of truth, but the true test of faith is whether our hearts are moved by suffering humanity. He quotes Ellen White: "If we were loving and lovable, there would be a hundred where now there is one."

Discussion Questions:

  1. The preacher says, "The greatest testing truth is: does your heart get plucked by the plight of suffering humanity?" Do you agree? Why or why not?

  2. Read Matthew 9:13 ("I desire mercy, not sacrifice"). Why do you think Jesus quoted this specific Old Testament verse twice?

  3. The preacher notes that Jesus came "full of grace and truth" (John 1:14), specifically putting grace first. How does the order of these words change the way we share truth with others?

Part 2: The Flawed Hero (The Moses Biography)

Sermon Summary: Moses had a lifelong snare: impatience/anger. He killed an Egyptian in a rash act (Exodus 2). Despite 40 years in Midian learning meekness, his old habit resurfaced at the end (Numbers 20). Instead of speaking to the rock (representing a crucified, risen Savior), he struck it in anger.

Scripture Reading: *Numbers 20:7-12* (The water of Meribah)

Discussion Questions:

  1. Why did God punish Moses so severely (barring him from the Promised Land for striking the rock) when the miracle still produced water for the people?

  2. The preacher suggests Moses and Aaron were likely complaining "about this no good flock" to each other before they got to the rock. How does our private frustration with others affect our public ministry?

  3. Heart Check: What is your "lifelong snare" that the devil tries to reopen when you are tired or grieving (Miriam had just died in Numbers 20)?

Part 3: The Brokenhearted Father (The Plea)

Sermon Summary: After 40+ years of service, Moses pleads with God to let him cross the Jordan. God refuses, saying, "Speak to me no more about this matter" (Deut. 3:26). A commentary suggests God was "beside Himself" with grief in giving this answer.

Scripture Reading: *Deuteronomy 3:23-27*

Discussion Questions:

  1. The preacher parallels God saying "No" to Moses with a father telling his child "No." How does Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 7:11 ("If you... know how to give good gifts... how much more...") help us trust God when He denies our requests?

  2. Have you ever had a prayer answered with a definitive "No" (like Moses)? How did that change your relationship with God?

  3. Why is it important that Moses did not rebel against the "No," but instead humbled himself and accepted it?

Part 4: The Supernatural Ending (The Resurrection)

Sermon Summary: Although Moses died outside Canaan, God gave him a supernatural vision from Mt. Pisgah showing the entire scope of redemption (the coming of Jesus, the cross, the resurrection). God resurrected Moses (Jude 1:9) and he appeared on the Mount of Transfiguration. God’s "No" was actually a "Yes" to a better resurrection.

Scripture Reading: *Deuteronomy 34:1-5; Jude 1:9; Matthew 17:1-3*

Discussion Questions:

  1. The preacher speculates that God gave Moses a cinematic vision of the future (Jesus' life, death, and the disciples). Why does God often wait until the end of our lives to reveal the "big picture" of why we suffered?

  2. Read Jude 1:9. Satan argued over Moses' body, accusing him of his sins (murder, anger). How does Jesus’ response ("The Lord rebuke you") demonstrate grace for those who died with lingering character flaws?

  3. Closing Thought: How does knowing that Moses got to cross the "Heavenly Jordan" even though he missed the "Earthly Jordan" change your perspective on your own unfulfilled dreams?

Part 5: Go and Learn What This Means (Application)

The Preacher’s Final Challenge:

"We better be the most gracious people on the face of the planet. I desire mercy, not sacrifice... Do I want your 10,000 rivers of oil? He has shown you, O man, what is good: to do justly, to love mercy, and to walk humbly."

Action Steps for the Week:

  1. Identify the "Rock": Where in your life are you currently "striking" in anger/frustration (like Moses) rather than speaking calmly in faith?

  2. The "Parental" Filter: Before you speak a hard truth this week, ask yourself: "If this were my child, would I say it this way?"

  3. Trust the "No": Write down one prayer that God has clearly denied. Spend 5 minutes thanking Him for the "better thing" He has planned (eternal life, character growth, or peace) that you cannot see yet.

Closing Prayer Prompt: "Lord, give me 'Parental Derangement Syndrome'—a heart so soft toward others that I reflect Your fountain of affection. Forgive me for the times I strike out in impatience. Help me to speak to the Rock, Christ, and to trust Your 'No's' because they lead to an eternal 'Yes.' Amen."

For the Facilitator / Small Group Leader

  • The "Uninspired" Note: The preacher uses Prophets and Kings and Patriarchs and Prophets heavily. If your group does not hold these as inspired, treat them as "commentary." The primary authority remains Scripture (Exodus, Numbers, Deuteronomy).

  • Sensitive Area: The sermon critiques political partisanship. Keep the discussion focused on Moses' character and God's mercy, not modern politics

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